The heart of the matter: a journey into spiritual care
Practitioner, Rohan Souter, describes spiritual care as the space where questions of meaning, identity, connection and belonging find a home.
When Rohan Souter walks into a room, he brings more than just his guitar and a folder of song lyrics. He brings presence. He brings curiosity. And he brings a deep reverence for human stories—especially those that are still unfolding.
Recently recognised with the Best of Care award at the Spiritual Care Australia National Conference, Rohan’s work as Bendigo Health’s Spiritual Care Practitioner in Mental Health is not only appreciated—it’s celebrated. The award honours excellence in spiritual care practice, and Rohan’s nomination was backed by heartfelt testimonials from colleagues and clients alike.
‘He’s one in a million,’ said one. ‘Rohan’s a legend,’ said another.
But behind the accolades is a story of a man whose path into spiritual care was anything but linear.
‘I was a country boy originally,’ Rohan reflects. ‘I’ve had a varied career—music, theatre, teaching. I taught English as a second language, worked with people with disabilities. But I always felt drawn to the personal and interpersonal growth of the people I worked with. That’s where the real stuff is.’
That ‘real stuff’ eventually led him into the world of spiritual care—a space where questions of meaning, identity, connection and belonging are not only welcomed, but central.
‘My earlier life was full of doubt and confusion,’ he says, ‘trying to understand my place in the world, human relationships, my inner landscape. Now I’m in a role that’s all about addressing people’s existential material.’
In mental health settings, those questions often come to the surface in raw and powerful ways.
‘People say, “I know who I was once upon a time, but all this stuff’s happened … and I’m in a place of great disillusionment.” My role is to gently hold space for those reflections. What’s brought you to this place of crisis? And what’s the potential for growth here?’
Rohan’s approach is deeply person-centred, and his practice is infused with humility, humour and heart. He’s not there to prescribe meaning, but to help people uncover their own.
‘I think when people hear “spiritual care” they expect the finger of God to come down at any moment,’ he laughs. ‘But I’m a very errant sheep, I suppose. My filter is my gut and my heart. If it feels right, I trust it.’
‘They’re a key part of what I do each week,’ he says. ‘We usually start our groups with meditation—just observing thoughts and sensations. Then The Bears come out. They change the whole vibe in the room. They’re disarming, they don’t take themselves too seriously.’
Participants are invited to choose cards that reflect where they’re at, and then share—if they wish.
‘We’re not here to fix each other,’ Rohan explains. ‘We’re here to experience the magic that happens when we trust in our own capacity to unfold. The Bears help us do that. There’s no prescription.’
The sessions often end with Everyday Strengths, especially when tenderness is in the air.
‘They’re so affirming and safe,’ he says. ‘They help create a warm, nurturing feeling to close the group.’
Music also plays a central role in Rohan’s practice. Every Wednesday, he runs a music group in the acute unit.
‘We have songbooks, people choose a song, we sing, and they talk about why it’s relevant. Music taps into the whole person—the heart, the gut, the nervous system. It operates in that liminal space where the ordinary meets the extraordinary.’
He recalls a moment when a former patient approached him after a session.
‘He said, “I want to apologise. I wasn’t as evolved last time we met. I see things differently now.” Then he said something about the shape of my face and how he could tell I was evolved. It was just so beautiful. He was offering me a truer reflection of my esteem. That’s the kind of sacredness that can happen.’
Rohan’s pathway into spiritual care was shaped by his own journey and a commitment to personal growth. He completed Clinical Pastoral Education (CPE), a rigorous process involving hospital placements, peer reflection, and supervision.
‘It’s very deep work,’ he says. ‘It’s about developing awareness of Self and the capacity to sit with another person and honour their unfolding.’
At Bendigo Health, spiritual care is professionalised and integrated into the broader health system. Practitioners undergo the same induction as other staff and are selected based on their qualifications and CPE training. Rohan’s role is unique—he’s the only full-time spiritual care practitioner in the mental health unit, a position created and funded by the unit itself.
‘I have a lot of autonomy,’ he says. ‘I waltz in and out. I run groups, respond to referrals, and maintain a presence in the inpatient units.’
His collaborative approach is widely appreciated. He’s in regular contact with the Aboriginal Health Liaison team and works alongside colleagues from diverse religious backgrounds.
‘I always seek to promote spiritual care as an equal and essential partner in holistic health care.’
Rohan’s reflections on the broader mental health landscape are both poetic and provocative.
‘We’re meeting people at a place where the ordinary meets the extraordinary, where the “sane” meets the unexpected. If we had a more imaginative health system, would we be supporting people in more spiritual, emotional, creative ways?’
He sees the current mental health crisis as a symptom of a deeper societal malaise.
‘We live in a reductionist, materialistic society,’ Rohan says. ‘The one with the most toys wins. It’s ridiculous. But I see beautiful compassion every day. And I sing the praises of Bendigo Health—I feel supported and trusted here.’
Self-care is an ongoing journey for Rohan.
‘I’m doing pretty well with meditation at the moment,’ he says. ‘My wife’s a great exemplar—she meditates two hours a day. Nature helps too. When I take leave, I need time to decompress before I can really rest.’
Ultimately, Rohan’s work is about honouring the living human document—the person’s own story.
‘It’s not the Bible. It’s not the Koran. It’s the person’s narrative. And our capacity to be with that and honour it.’
In a world that often rushes to fix, Rohan Souter reminds us of the power of presence, the beauty of listening, and the healing that can happen when we simply hold space.
Supervision is an important part of any human services role—whether it be as the supervisor or supervisee—but not every experience is positive. Clinical supervisor, Jess Marsh, has developed a way to make supervision a safe, creative and unique experience for everyone involved.
When Jess Marsh first stepped into a leadership role, she did what many do—she figured it out as she went. Like countless professionals thrust into supervisory positions, she hadn’t experienced good supervision herself, let alone clinical supervision.
‘I remember thinking, what am I even meant to be doing?’ she recalls. ‘I struggled a lot with imposter syndrome and just hoped I was doing a good job.’
That early uncertainty planted the seeds for what would become a transformative journey—one that led Jess to develop a new approach to supervision, grounded in psychological safety, creativity, and deep listening. Today, she’s a counsellor, clinical supervisor, and the creator of the Supervision Menu, a flexible framework that’s helping practitioners across the sector rethink how they support each other.
Jess’s pathway to supervision
Jess’s turning point came during her time at the Australian Childhood Foundation, where she worked for four years.
‘I had brilliant supervision and a mentor who helped me discover who I am as a supervisor,’ she says.
That experience gave her the confidence to experiment with new ways of engaging her team. She noticed that how supervision began—whether with deep breaths, calming music, or a body scan—could set the tone for the entire session.
‘I had this moment of … there’s something here,’ she says. ‘It made me think, what if I had options people could choose from?’
That question led to the first version of the Supervision Menu—a rough draft, by her own admission, but one that laid the foundation for a more intentional, person-centred approach.
‘I wanted to connect with people based on what was happening for them that day,’ she explains. ‘Not just rely on talk-based strategies.’
The Supervision Menu: a framework for flexibility
The Supervision Menu is structured like a meal—entrée, main course, dessert—with each section offering different ways to engage, reflect, and finish well. It’s designed to be fluid, adaptable, and responsive to the needs of both the supervisor and supervisee.
‘What works for one person doesn’t work for another,’ Jess says. ‘So, I always start with a supervision agreement. What’s worked for you before? What hasn’t? What kind of communication do you prefer?’
At the heart of the menu is the idea of psychological safety—creating a space where people feel held, heard, and empowered. Jess is clear: supervision should never be a space people dread.
‘Too often, supervision is used to tell people what they’re not doing,’ she says. ‘It becomes a task list, not a space to unpack what’s really going on.’
Instead, Jess sees supervision as a relational, creative act.
‘If the people I’m supporting feel safe and held, that translates into their practice,’ she says. ‘And their clients receive the best possible support.’
Cards on the table: Innovative Resources in practice
Jess’s approach is deeply informed by her love of Innovative Resources card sets.
‘These cards help people make meaning of what’s happening for them,’ she explains. ‘Not just a debrief and a dump, but actually processing the work.’
In one group supervision session with a youth mentoring service, Jess used The Bears cards to help participants reflect on each other’s emotional states.
‘They were able to say, “I’ve noticed you’ve looked upset this week,” and have that conversation,’ she says. ‘It built connection and transparency.’
She also uses the cards digitally, integrating them into online sessions via Microsoft Whiteboard.
‘People can circle options, choose a card that represents their week, and we can explore that narrative together,’ she says.
Supervision as a creative act
Jess is passionate about making supervision a space for creativity and authenticity.
‘As adults, we sometimes shy away from creative approaches,’ she says. ‘There’s this idea that good supervision is just sitting in a room and talking. But so many people aren’t actually processing the work.’
The menu offers options, not prescriptions.
‘It doesn’t have to work for everybody,’ she says, ‘but it gives people the chance to try something different.’
That includes tailoring the menu to cultural contexts. Jess is deeply committed to working respectfully with Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples, adapting her approach based on the lands and traditions of her supervisees.
‘It might mean doing supervision out on Country,’ she says. ‘Or connecting in a different way.’
The menu includes a blank section for people to add their own ‘course’—whether they’re working in schools, allied health, LGBTQIA+ contexts, or community settings.
‘It’s about meeting the person in front of you,’ Jess says. ‘Culture has many layers, and we need to celebrate and integrate that into the work.’
Wellbeing as the final course
For Jess, supervision isn’t just about professional development—it’s about wellbeing.
‘Dessert is an important part of the menu,’ she says. ‘How do we finish well? Do you need a break? How do you orientate back into your workspace?’
She’s seen firsthand how burnout affects frontline workers, especially nurses and teachers.
‘I’d love to see the stats on whether adequate supervision could reduce burnout and vicarious trauma,’ she says, ‘because in my private practice, a lot of my counselling clients are nurses and teachers.’
Jess believes everyone deserves good supervision.
‘It’s about being authentic,’ she says. ‘Not just booking a random time between meetings. How do we keep this person well?’
BeWith: A philosophy of presence
Jess’s private practice is called BeWith, a name that reflects her philosophy of being alongside people on their journey.
‘Supervisees know they have you holding them through it,’ she says. ‘They don’t have to figure it out alone.’
She often quotes Lisa Dion: “You are the best tool in the workshop.” For Jess, the relationship and rapport between supervisor and supervisee are the most important resources.
‘Yes, the cards and the menu can complement the work,’ she says, ‘but you are the key resource.’
The Supervision Menu is more than a tool—it’s an invitation to rethink how we show up for each other. It’s a reminder that supervision can be spacious, creative, and deeply human. And it’s a testament to Jess Marsh’s belief that when we feel safe, we can do our best work.
The new edition of an old favourite, Note to self, is landing soon. With gorgeous new illustrations by artist, Katie Jardine, and updated suits and questions, Note to Self is a perfect tool to help you explore your choices, shift your perspective, and find hope, even during challenging times.
We all need reminders. Reminders to pause, to breathe, to believe in ourselves, and to return to what matters most.
First published more than a decade ago, Note to self has supported thousands of people face challenges with courage and embrace life with greater self-compassion. Each card offers a gentle but powerful prompt to help people shift their perspective, reframe self-talk, and reconnect with inner strength.
As the author of Note to self, Gena McLean said, back in 2007 when she developed the first edition of the cards,
‘… “note to self” was a phrase people often used when they’d made a small mistake: Note to self…check the pockets next time!Note to self…leave earlier for work! We were giving ourselves mental reminders about the small stuff, but it got me thinking—what about the big stuff? The truths and choices that shape our lives?’
Katie and Gena
This edition also includes a set of brand-new delightful images by artist Katie Jardine (Strength Cards, Anxiety Solutions for Kids), which make these cards a perfect accompaniment to warm, reflective conversations about any questions, challenges, or changes people are grappling with.
Note to self consists of 24 cards, featuring more than 70 questions and sentence starters. Use the cards to:
reflect on behaviours and choices
acknowledge thoughts and feelings
promote positive self-talk
work through challenges and ‘sticking points’
identify strengths, beliefs and values
build hope.
Perfect for counsellors, social workers, life coaches, personal reflection, journalling … and more.
This revised and updated edition reflects author, Gena McLean’s, own journey of resilience, healing, and growth. Forged through personal experience and the universal challenges of being human, these cards invite us to rewrite our inner script by focussing on our choices, beliefs, thoughts and actions.
‘At 17, I was diagnosed with a debilitating gut condition and told there was nothing I could do but “learn to live with it.” For over forty years I’ve lived with chronic pain. But instead of letting it define me, I chose to let it refine me.
‘Pain became my teacher. It pushed me to seek meaning, to change my relationship to suffering, and to discover strength I didn’t know I had. Often, I felt alone in it—and so I learnt to be there for myself. That journey became the soil in which Note to self grew, and it continues to shape this new edition.’
While the cards feel gentle, kind, compassionate and heartwarming, they are also perfect for talking about the hard stuff—chronic pain or illness, grief and loss, and trauma. Equally, they are great for helping guide small everyday decisions as they encourage us to focus on what we can control, rather than what we can’t. As Gena says:
‘Life will always bring challenges—some small, some devastating. We don’t get to choose what happens, but we do get to choose how we respond. We can be broken down, or we can be broken open. In the breaking open, we discover strengths, skills, and deeper connections that might otherwise never have emerged.’
Perfect for use with groups, in classrooms, and therapeutic spaces, they are also ideal as personal reminders—put one up on the fridge, over your desk, or on your bedside table, as a reminder that you always have options.
This is Gena’s invitation to you. ‘My hope is that this new edition of Note to self will be a gentle companion for you on your journey. May it remind you that you are stronger than you think, that you have choices, and that you can rewrite the script—one note to self at a time.’
Every hardcopy card set purchased includes a FREE digital set of the cards, a digital booklet and an online toolbox full of extras.
As we come to the end of the year, many of us are looking for ways to replenish our energy, connect with loved ones, and find joy in the simple things in life. Water has always been a source of healing, connection, fun and meaning. How can we draw on the power of water as we take a break this summer?
Approaching the holiday season, many Australians are rummaging through the bottom drawer for rumpled bathers and colourful towels. Summer, for many of us is about surf and sand, rivers and lakes, dams and swimming pools.
If you live in a colder part of the world, water is probably still central to your holiday season plans, whether it’s making snow angels, drinking steaming cups of tea, or listening to the rain on the roof.
Why are we so drawn to water?
Is it because water is full of emotions? Constantly changing—from solid, liquid, to gas, from gentle to raging— water can be easily drawn on as a metaphor for feelings and life challenges.
Is it because our need for water is something that connects every living thing so it has become a symbol of interconnectedness, growth, and renewal?
Is it because water is a source of beauty and intrigue, with poets and artists endlessly fascinated by its nuances and hidden depths?
There are so many reasons we might link water with our wellbeing and sense of connection to the world. Perhaps, most fundamentally, we are between 50-75% water ourselves (depending on our age and gender). Our bodies are linked to all other ‘bodies’ of water in the world, due to the tidal pull of the moon and the fact that water is also essential to most animals and plants.
The idea that we are made of water becomes tangible when we breathe on a cold morning—our breath full of moisture. Or when we sweat in the heat.
We can only survive for a short time without water. In many ways, then, our sense of existential fragility arises out of our relationship with water.
Let’s explore what water means for us as humans in a bit more depth.
Water as emotion
We often use water metaphors to describe emotions.
Roaring oceans, raging rivers, rips that drag us under, storms, soaring, pounding surf, reflect our intense or powerful emotions.
Calm forest pools, trickling water features, misty mornings, represent peace, calm and tranquillity. We may use a soundtrack of the ocean or rain to lull ourselves to sleep.
Rainy days are often described as miserable. Dark clouds are often used to describe depression or sadness. When we can’t get our thoughts together, we describe our brains as being foggy. When we feel stuck or overwhelmed, we may describe ourselves as stagnating, wading through mud, or drowning.
The phrase ‘cold as ice’ is often used to describe someone who lacks empathy.
Water is capable of great patience, for example, it can carve canyons, ravines and river valleys. And is there anything more marvellous than the way stalactites and stalagmites are formed by water droplets over tens of thousands, or even millions, of years?
In a very physical sense, when we are feeling emotional, tears appear—of sadness, laughter, anger or pain.
We also talk about feelings as coming in waves, ebbing and flowing.
No matter our culture or geographical location, we all have a relationship with water. You might try to explore the symbolism of water yourself or with clients or students, as a creative activity in a classroom, or as a personal reflective activity.
You could ask (yourself or others):
If you were to describe what kind of body of water you are right now, what would it be (a gathering storm, a gentle river, a drought-struck dam, a frozen lake, an ocean current)?
What would you like to be (a pond full of water lilies, a white-water river, a glacier, a small stream)?
Would being around water help you create a sense of wellbeing?
How might you spend some time around water this holiday season
Water as healing
While spending time in green spaces has been shown to improve mental health and wellbeing, there is more and more research into the impact of blue spaces on wellness.
Elle Hunt argues in her article in The Guardian titled, ‘Blue spaces: why time spent near water is the secret of happiness’,
‘The benefits of “blue space”—the sea and coastline, but also rivers, lakes, canals, waterfalls, even fountains—are less well publicised, yet the science has been consistent for at least a decade: being by water is good for body and mind.’
Referring to research by White, she notes,
‘… time in and around aquatic environments has consistently been shown to lead to significantly higher benefits, in inducing positive mood and reducing negative mood and stress, than green space does.’
There is an increasing body of research in this space, which is both fascinating and hopeful.
All over the world, mineral springs have long been seen as places of healing. From Egypt’s Bahariya Oasis to Pamukkale in Türkiye (a UNESCO World Heritage Site, people have been using hot springs for healing for millennia. We also use water for healing in simple ways, like putting an ice pack on a sprained ankle, using ice baths after sport, or sitting in steaming saunas that relax tight muscles and release toxins.
The sound of water has also long been associated with contributing to a calming, meditative state of mind. For example we listen to the sound of waves to help us sleep, and the gentle patter of rain is often described as peaceful and cosy.
On the flip side, dehydration, i.e. a lack of water, has been linked to lack of energy, increased irritability, headaches, low mood, anxiety and it can even impact on brain structure and function in people with long term dehydration.
‘Overall, negative emotions such as anger, hostility, confusion and tension as well as fatigue were found to increase with dehydration.’
Dehydration has also been linked to lower serotonin uptake and increased cortisol levels, both of which can contribute to increased anxiety. Even mild dehydration (1–2%) can impair concentration, memory, and mood. It has also been linked to poorer sleep.
The good news is that the research also finds that increasing water intake, no mater how much you normally drink can increase a sense of wellbeing.
Of course, for millions of people around the world, poor water quality can be a source of diseases such as cholera, diarrhoea, dysentery, hepatitis A, typhoid and polio.
In 2021, over 2 billion people lived in water-stressed countries, which is expected to be exacerbated in some regions as result of climate change and population growth (1).
In 2022, globally, at least 1.7 billion people used a drinking water source contaminated with faeces.
With so many people in the world not having access to good quality drinking water, water is also a social justice issue
Water as connection
Rivers, oceans, lakes, and other bodies of water can be understood as connectors between communities and geographical locations. In fact, for thousands of years, our maps used to be based on waterways rather than land routes.
In Robert MacFarlane’s wonderful book, The Old Ways, he invites us to re-imagine the history of Europe…
‘…blank out the land interiors of these countries—consider them featureless, as you might previously have considered the sea. Instead, populate the western and northern waters with paths and tracks, a travel system that joins port to port, island to island, headland to headland, river mouth, to river mouth. The sea has become the land…’
Various consequences follow from this way of thinking. We no longer imagine land borders or nation states, since communities are connected via water rather than land. He also notes that these old ‘sea roads are dissolving paths whose passage leave no trace beyond a wake…’ even if the road has been a sea route for 5000 years, which means they are ephemeral, like a ghost network connecting the world.
Nowhere is our socio-cultural dependence on water more evident than in Egypt. All culture and community is along the Nile, as it has been for thousands of year. According to National Geographic, the entire Nile River basin—made up of interconnected streams, lakes and rivers—threads its way through 11 African countries. Being the last country on the river, Egyptians are dependent on good relationships with all of these countries for water, food, and continued existence.
The Social Life of Water, edited by John Richard Wagner, describes how every community organises itself in relation to water. Humans need a stable source of water for drinking, growing, hygiene, social gatherings, food, supporting livestock, fishing. From ancient times, water has been central in our communities. In contemporary society, water has become a commodity that is becoming more scarce in many parts of the world. In others, they risk being overwhelmed by rising waters, unseasonal storms, and wild weather resulting from climate change.
Immersing ourselves in water can also generate a sense of connection to the natural world. When we are submerged, our whole body is being held by the water – it lifts us up, surrounds us, skin on skin. This can feel nurturing and deeply connecting. The dampening of sound under water can create a sense of womblike peace and serenity.
Water as spirit
Many religions and spiritual systems see water as sacred.
For example. First Nations Australians have always treasured, sacred for a respected the value of water:
‘Water is core to life for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples. Protecting and managing water is a custodial and intergenerational responsibility. If the cultural and spiritual values of water are sustained by providing water that is sufficient in both quantity and quality, then many other components of Indigenous life will be healthy.
‘Cultural and spiritual values may relate to a range of uses and issues, including spiritual relationships, language, song lines, stories, sacred places, customary use, the plants and animals associated with water, drinking water, and recreational or commercial activities.’
‘Water is more than a chemical compound of hydrogen and oxygen; it is the essence of life itself. Indigenous cultures worldwide, especially those residing along the interior rivers, bays, lakes and coastal regions, have long recognized water as a living entity imbued with spirit, agency, and autonomy. This understanding transcends metaphor—it is rooted in an intimate observation of nature and a profound respect for water’s role as the life-giver and decision-maker for all beings on Mother Earth.’
The wonderful First Nations poet and biologist, Robin Wall Kimmerer, describes how, for First Nations peoples of North America, including her own Citizen Potawatomi Nation, many words that are nouns (or things) in English, are actually verbs (or actions) in her native language, especially water. In her deeply poetic and soulful book, Braiding Sweetgrass, she says,
‘A bay is a noun only if water is dead. When bay is a noun, it is defined by humans, trapped between its shores and contained by the word. But the verb wiikwegamaa—to be a bay—releases the water from bondage and lets it live. “To be a bay” holds the wonder that, for this moment, the living water has decided to shelter itself between these shores, conversing with cedar roots and a flock of baby mergansers. Because it could do otherwise—become a stream or an ocean or a waterfall, and there are verbs for that, too. To be a hill, to be a sandy beach, to be a Saturday, all are possible verbs in a world where everything is alive.
‘Water, land, and even a day, the language a mirror for seeing the animacy of the world, the life that pulses through all things, through pines and nuthatches and mushrooms. This is the language I hear in the woods; this is the language that lets us speak of what wells up all around us.[…] This is the grammar of animacy.’
Taoism often uses the image of water to describe the passing of time and the ephemeral nature of reality. As Lau Tzu describes:
‘Water is fluid, soft, and yielding. But water will wear away rock, which is rigid and cannot yield. As a rule, whatever is fluid, soft, and yielding will overcome whatever is rigid and hard. This is another paradox: what is soft is strong.’
Water also has sacred symbolic dimensions in Christianity, Islam, Hinduism, and Buddhism.
Thinking about your spiritual tradition, what does water represent?
Water as a source of mystery and awe
Our oceans contain some of the last unmapped environments on Earth. As of June 2025 27.3% of the global seafloor had been mapped. As such, oceans are liminal, largely unknown places.
They are mysterious, full of alien entities, light-generating sci fi creatures that feel like dream creatures. This can generate a sense of fear, wonder, curiosity, and awe.
The oceans also cover around 70% of the earth, which means we actually know very little about our planet, despite our sense that as humans that we are knowledgeable, informed, scientific, beings.
Looking out over the ocean from high places or a plane can induce a sense of awe. Awe is an emotion that encourages us to see our smallness and fragility, which can, in turn, create a sense of perspective, humility and gratitude. Experiences of awe have been shown to increase our wellbeing in a range of ways.
Seek out some awe during the holiday season and notice how your mood changes.
How to draw on water’s nuanced and powerful qualities this holiday season
This holiday season, maybe carve out some time to spend in your favourite manifestation of water. Sit under a sprinkler on a hot day; go for a paddle in a canoe; relax on a lilo, a tube, or just in floaties; sit on a river bank and go fishing; have a gelato or a water gun fight; dig your toes in sand and let seawater tickle through your toes; or dive into the shocking cold of a swimming pool. If you’re in the northern hemisphere, build a snow man, take a hot bath, or jump in some winter puddles.
Here are a few other ideas for reconnecting with water:
Go snorkelling, scuba diving, in a glass bottom boat or to an aquarium and be awed by the creatures that live beneath the ocean.
Staring at water can have the same calming effect as staring at fire. Find a mesmerising body of water—maybe a small waterfall, a pond, or a water feature in a garden—and take some time to sit and absorb the sounds of the water. Meditate on the animals that depend on it, and notice your own breath gently coming and going. Try to connect with your heartbeat—how do the rhythms of your heart connect with the rhythms of the water?
Go to a mineral spring and soak in their healing waters.
Spend some time in a hot tub, hot shower, or sauna.
Get a fishtank. Research has shown that being around these small aquatic spaces has positive impacts on people in aged care facilities.
Hike to a high point at dawn or dusk and marvel at the vastness and beauty of the ocean.
Watch birds playing in a birdbath – enjoy their joy and irreverence.
Feel invigorated! Alternating between hot and cold water can give bring you alive—as Scandinavians have known for centuries, with their sauna then cold plunge. In Australia, you may get a similar experience at the southern beaches in summer, when on a 40-degree day, you jump into the freezing Antarctic waters of the ocean.
Observe droplets of water on a flower or insects flitting across a pond – noticing the micro can help us appreciate the small moments of wonder all around us, which can increase our sense of connectedness and joy.
Make a conscious decision to focus on staying hydrated—you might be surprised how it lifts your mood and energy levels.
Go to a stream and meditate on how the water moves around obstacles. It isn’t judgemental, it is flexible. How could you be less judgemental, go with the flow, move around immovable object?